in response...

i think my last controversial blog teetered on this idea but i dont quite remember and im feeling too lazy to go back and reanalyze it...the idea is simply this...what is a helpful response and what isnt to a life situation from best friends?...i think that makes sense, lets see if i can go further with explainations...a number of times i read friends blogs where they are feeling down and out...im sure ive written a number myself...and i always attempt to read the replies from others and everytime i do i have to quit half way through because its the same old bullshit...im sorry, i feel sorry for you, ive been there before, that sucks what can i do for you, i love you let me know if there is anything i can do...fuck that...when i write one of these types of blogs if im looking for any answer its for a solution, not a piece of cake to fuel my misery...i want something real and over and over i never see answers to others' blogs so i attempt myself to either give a real response or a completely comical reply...and in my reality, my true friends dont even to say shit because they already know and ive already received their feedback...but maybe im wrong, maybe the above list of cliche sounding follow ups work for some people and so the question im trying to figure out the real reply to is does it? call me out if im off my cliched rocker...